Dating & disappointment

“Everybody deserves somebody who makes them look forward to tomorrow.” ~ Orebela Gbenga

One of the biggest obstacles I’ve faced when trying to break back into the dating world hasn’t been my career or my son – it’s timing.

I’ve never had great timing. I can look back over the years and see the pattern. In high school, I wasn’t confident enough and this led to much disappointment because I would talk myself out of even going after a guy I had a crush. I would use excuses as a defense mechanism. Then when those excuses turned out to be even partially true, I used them as a brick to build a wall around myself and my heart. By the time I was to the point where I’d work up the courage to ask the guy out, he was already dating someone. Continue reading “Dating & disappointment”

New year, new direction

After a series of opportunities took me away from this blog, I’ve decided to come back to it with a different approach.

Instead of focusing on crafts and projects, and this recipe or that, I’ve decided to focus more on my life and share pieces of it. I’ve noticed one of the big things about having a career and a child with autism, is that there isn’t necessarily people out their talking about their experiences or life. Continue reading “New year, new direction”

Somthing new

For the past six months, I’ve been applying and job searching with little success. I’ve had two job interviews, but zero job offerings. It’s been frustrating to say the least. Recently, an opportunity has presented itself, and I jumped at it!

I worked for almost four and half years in Anderson, California as a reporter for the weekly newspaper there. At the beginning of July, the decision was made by the corporation that owns the paper to eliminate the website. This leaves a news void in this particular community because the same corporation that owns the weekly paper, also owns the only daily newspaper in Redding, which is 12 miles away. Because Redding is the bigger city, the newspaper and television media devote more space to that community. So, I decided to start my own online newspaper. Continue reading “Somthing new”

Coming Together

It has been almost two weeks now since I’ve had a refrigerator in my kitchen, and I can say I have greatly missed that appliances presence! I never knew how much I relied on my fridge being in my kitchen until the one I had up and died on me, and I had to figure out how to survive with only a freezer.

No easy feat for someone who has a 3-year-old that only drinks chocolate milk. Then I finally get my dream French door fridge delivered to my house with the knowledge that it will be in the garage for a few days, but then it will be back in my kitchen. Now, one week later, my dream fridge is still in the garage. Continue reading “Coming Together”


So, over the weekend the fridge part of my refrigerator unit stopped getting air blown into it. When did I discover this? Saturday night, after I came home from visiting family. Of course, I had just gone grocery shopping earlier that day.

Needless to say it was a mad dash to get as much food into the freezer compartment, as well as over to my parent’s house where they fortunately have a second refrigerator in their garage. Continue reading “Changes”

Up and Running

Last week I contacted my former editor and asked to see if he had any freelance work for me. Fortunately for me, he is need of stories. So, tomorrow I’ll be back out in the Anderson community covering a few different events, then I’ll be on the look out for more timeless features. Those come in handy so many times for freelance writers, just having contacts that can give you those kinds of stories are invaluable.

In addition to freelancing for the newspaper I used to work at, I’ve been sewing up a storm. A few years back. I created an online store on Etsy, but I never had the time to craft and fill it to sell things. Being unemployed has given me plenty of time to not only write, but to also catch up on projects and sew. Continue reading “Up and Running”

Busy, Busy!

Things have been moving along, and it seems like the days are just flying by. My son was recently diagnosed as a level 2 autistic. It was nice to finally know what exactly I’m dealing with, and know that there will be a plan moving forward. We are meeting with his services coordinator later this week, which will give me a better idea what some of the information the psychologist gave us means. For example, the psychologist said he needs occupational therapy every day, but how many hours? Weekdays only? Or literally every day?

It will be nice to finally have a context for all my questions, as well as an education plan moving forward. His psychologist said she felt strongly that in time, he will be normal or at least in a place where his autism doesn’t effect him. I’m looking forward to the meeting with services coordinator, and also getting my son involved in different activities over the summer, like swim lessons. He will probably have to have private swim lessons because of his autism, but at least it will get him to try something different, in an environment that he loves.

I have FINALLY finished my laundry room, and the ceiling looks AMAZING! The room seems so much brighter and cheerful. I actually enjoy being in there to do laundry and crafts. Speaking of crafts, Father’s Day was Sunday, and Pinterest was flooded with great ideas for what to make dad. I found this really awesome project for my Dad’s poker room. So on Saturday, my sister and I made a run to the local Michael’s and picked up everything we needed…. Well, almost everything, but we’ll get to that.Image

So, after seeing this shadow box DIY project, I sent it to my sister. She and I came up with some ideas to make it more personal for our Dad and show him that we do pay attention. He loves football, and his favorite team is the Pittsburgh Steelers, but try finding anything like that in the scrapbook section in California. We found a package of pre-cut football things for scrapbooking, and used double sided foam tape to adhere it to our 11×14 shadow box. We couldn’t find anything beer related, so we took a trip over to the paper, and grabbed silver and blue – our Dad drinks Coors, so we decided to make one. Then we found a mountain range back with the stickers, and some red and silver letters.

We found these cool silver letters for the main slogan, but this is where it gets fun… And by fun, I mean frustrating. So, in the original picture, the person used actual sticker letters. But my sister and I liked the silver, cardboard type letters with adhesive on the back. We both figured they would stick to the glass just like the other letters – Yeah, WRONG! I got the letters all lined up, and then peeled off the back and stuck them to the glass. I put a couple of heavy books carefully on the letters, then let it sit overnight hoping it would help the bond. When I got up in the morning and took the books off, I stood the shadow box up carefully and noticed right away that the letters weren’t staying. I quickly turned to Google, and discovered a glue that would work. It’s a bonding cement used in jewelry making. I ran back to Michael’s, bought the glue, and then came straight home.

I glued the letters on carefully after reading the directions several times. They are really straight forward, but it’s bonding cement, and I really didn’t feel like going to the hospital to get my fingers apart, or eye lid unglued. Once you take the cap off, the glue starts coming out, so be prepared and learn from me. Fortunately, I was at my dinning room table, so I just grabbed a napkin. I had also laid down newspaper, so things would’ve been OK, but I still feel like you should be warned.

Once the glue dried, I gave it a solid 4 hours because I was wrapping it and really didn’t feel like trying to get a letter off the tissue paper. Everything turned out perfect and our dad loved it! We are going to fill it up with can tabs instead of beer bottle caps because my dad prefers the cans over the bottles. It’ll give it yet another person touch 🙂

Below is a photo of the finished product! Have a happy Wednesday!


Happy Wednesday!

I hope everyone has enjoyed their Wednesday! I have been very busy over the past few days.

On Saturday, I helped a friend and her brides maids pick out the makeup look they wanted me to do on them for the wedding the next day. It wasn’t supposed to rain, and yet, it poured down rain off and on during the ceremony and reception. It wouldn’t have been so bad, except it was an outdoor wedding, and there wasn’t a tent in sight. Generally, no one gets tents for outdoor weddings in Redding, California once it hits April, especially in a drought year, but this year it had to rain. Despite the damp weather, fun times were had by all, and I even caught the bouquet!

Monday, Tuesday and today were spent working in the yard and going over things that need to be done for the new bathroom. My contractor friend has been slammed with appointments these past few days, so I’m hoping he is able to come out tomorrow. I mostly need to know what he needs me to do in order to get the ball rolling. I’m hoping it only takes a month to get the new bathroom and wet bar in to the studio, but only time will tell.

During the evening, after I get my son to bed, I have been working on my next screenplay project. One of the producers editing my most recent screenplay is currently working on a production in LA, so meet once every few weeks to discuss the latest draft and changes that need to be made. I’m also hoping to get his take on my latest project.

In the meantime, I’m going to finish painting the soffit in my kitchen, as well as the ceiling in both my laundry room and kitchen. Then I’ll be able to shift gears to focus on the studio around the same time that project fully gets underway.

I hope everyone enjoys there evening and I’ll leave you with a few pictures I took over the weekend during the wedding!

Kitchen Update

So, my sister was supposed to come over and help me paint the ceilings in my laundry room and kitchen; however, she ended up getting a sinus infection and bronchitis. My son is 3 and autistic, so he loves to help and needs to be near me at all times. He makes painting interesting.

In light of my sister’s illness, I decided to do a small paint project in my kitchen that involved a paint sample of “Green Tea” from Valspar and a brush. Painting with a brush does take a little longer, but its worth it to not have my son tip over a paint tray.

My upper kitchen cabinets both have soffits, but only one of those soffits is lath and plaster, the other is made of the same wood my cabinets are made out of. For the past few years I have dreamt of painting the soffit, putting up a quote I bought, and then painting the rest of the kitchen a nice cream color.  In a few years, I’ll have the cabinets stained a darker color, put in a new counter, install a tile floor, and have new appliances installed. For now, I just want it to not look like a depressing taupe/grey color.

I did the first coat of paint tonight, and it took about 20 minutes. I wasn’t too worried about taping the ceiling because that’s going to get a fresh coat of paint next week. I mostly taped the ceiling in the corners. Then took my paint brush and carefully laid down an even first coat. Tomorrow I’ll add a second coat and paint the underside of the soffit, and will probably add a second coat to the underside of the soffit as well.

I’m a Mary Kay Independent Beauty Consultant, as well as a freelance writer, and I have been asked to do a friend’s makeup for her wedding on Sunday, so Saturday we will be practicing. That means no painting or craft projects this weekend, because I am also expecting to get a screenplay back with a bunch of edits, which will make for a long third round of edits.

Anyway, enjoy the pics of the progress so far. I really love paint samples because they allow you to add a touch of color or drama to an area for under $5. Being on a budget and having to slowly decorate after you’ve saved the money can be a real drag sometimes, especially if it is taking months. So, the instant gratification I can get from adding color to a boring space helps me feel like I am making progress towards my decorating goal.

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